MFM Guide
Background
Are We Ready?
Finding The Right Partner
First Meeting
The Big Day
Afterward
Links
This guide is for couples seeking sound advice about a shared wife or lover, MFM (male-female-male) or hot wife experiences and is written for both men and women to read.  The information provided here should help readers not only determine whether they're ready to take that next step, but guide them in the process.  It is based on my shared wife experiences, forum conversations, books on this topic and suggestions from others.

It is hoped that you find this information useful and enlightening and I wish you the best of luck arranging a memorable experience!  :-)   Feel free to contact me for specific questions, share your escapades or provide feedback.

Paul
shareheradvice@hotmail.com

Audience:
The guide is intended for perfectly normal women and men involved in a loving relationship .  Couples interested in this lifestyle are in most cases married, but some are unmarried and involved in a serious long-term relationship.  In this fantasy, the woman is encouraged to engage in sexual play with another partner.  These adventures may be limited to cyber-flirtation or exhibitionism, or much more.

This guide is primarily written for beginners, mature in their views of sexuality, who are considering this next step.  It also includes alternatives for those couples who don't feel comfortable making the fantasy a reality at this time.

You'll see that a sensible GO SLOW approach is suggested.  Why?  Because it allows the couple to maintain a sense of control as they explore their own deepest desires and those of their partners.  In addition, it provides the opportunity to stop at any time if either partner feels uncomfortable.  

Before we begin...

An important clarification must be made.  This is not swinging.  It is not "open marriage" which is simply another word for swinging.   The author neither condones or supports the swinging lifestyle.  Bringing the MFM or shared wife fantasies to life does not lead to swinging - at least not for me or anyone that has a sincere interest in this fantasy.  Please look elsewhere if that is your interest.

Guide to new adventures!